Do you ever wonder how it is that some people just magically attract wonderful relationships into their lives?
years, I struggled in my relationships, especially my love life. No
matter how many books I read, no matter how many seminars I attended
(and there were many!), no matter how much I “learned, ” I just couldn’#8217;t
seem to figure out what I was doing wrong…
magical started happening when I began applying the Law of Attraction
to ALL areas of my life… not just in my business or around
prosperity, but my relationships too.
Everything started to transform.
relationships can be a huge energy drain on our systems… or at least
they are for me. Even if my business is going strong, if my
relationships are going sideways, everything feels out-of-sync.
first thing I did when I began this journey of applying the law of
attraction to my relationships was to get really clear about what I
wanted. What did I want my relationships to look like? More
importantly, how did I want to feel in my relationships?
down all the qualities and characteristics I wanted my partner to have
and how I wanted to feel around him. How did I want us to interact? I
wrote it down. How did I want him to interact with my daughter? I wrote
it down… everything I could possibly think of that I wanted in a
I looked back at my previous relationships and noticed
what specific traits I had loved about them and I included those
aspects in my new vision.
If you open up to it, there are always
aspects of past relationships that were positive… even if it was just
how that special person looked at you.
And I looked back at some
of the things I didn’#8217;t love about some of my relationships and then
turned them around to figure out what I did want. The contrast I had
experienced (what I didn’#8217;t want), provided wonderful clues about what I
You’#8217;ve heard the expression, “What you put your
attention on expands. ” Well when you start putting your attention on
all the things you want in a partner or in a relationship, that’#8217;s what
starts showing up… in incredibly miraculous ways.
If you want
to attract the love of your life, the first secret is to get really
clear about what you want and write it down. One of my favorite quotes
from the book, “The Passion Test, ” is “When you are clear, what you
want will show up in your life, and only to the extent you are clear. “
Simple, but profoundly true.
What kind of love do you really want in your life?
Give it some thought, even if you’#8217;re already in a relationship, and write it down.
you’#8217;ll be announcing your intentions to the Universe so it can start
bringing you what you want. Then the magic begins.
© 2008 Dawn Allen
Dawn Allen, CDC, CPTF, is a Love
& Attraction Coach, Author, and founder of Inspired Heart
Coaching™. Dawn is a leading authority on love and relationships, and
specializes in helping single women attract the love of their lives.
Through her group and private coaching programs, she teaches you how to
attract and create a deep, magical, and loving relationship by
releasing patterns from the past. To learn more about Dawn, visit http://www.InspiredHeartCoaching.com and receive her “4 Secrets to Finding Your Soul Mate ” E-book when you subscribe to her Secrets to Love Ezine, or email her at Dawn@InspiredHeartCoaching.com