According to the Law of Attraction you attract to yourself people,
events and opportunities that are vibrating at or near the frequency
that you yourself vibrate at. Vibration is not an ethereal concept. One
can actually feel or recognize this vibrational experience by
reflecting on the emotional “weight ” of the internal attitudes one
carries about one’s self , others, the environment, and life itself.
For instance if one has a pessimistic attitude the corresponding
“emotional weight ” of this would feel heavy, pressing down,
overwhelmed, depleting, or dragged down. In other words it would be in
a “negative ” direction or one of a lower vibration as one feels one’s
self being slowed down by such heaviness. The opposite would be true
for a person who is optimistic. You will also notice that a person who
is pessimistic will often draw to themselves negative experiences that
reinforce their negative attitudes and vice versa. With regards to
drawing one’s soulmate
which should inherently be a positive, uplifting or high vibration
event one must first generate such a vibration within themselves. How
can this be achieved?
1. Firstly, if one is single and has the attitude that that in some way
reflects negatively on them then they will feel alone, unworthy,
unlovable, unattractive, depressed, unmotivated, pessimistic of ever
having a relationship and so on. This attitude is clearly a low
vibrational state which will attract more of itself i.e. more
loneliness etc. So the first thing to do is to stop and observe a) what
is one feeling in the single state i.e. positive uplifting or negative
weighty feelings, then b) attempt to work backwards to see what kinds
of attitudes you hold that might be generating such feelings. Make a
note of as many as you can.
2. Secondly such attitudes have been pre-programmed within you from
earlier negative experiences that are stored as memories which you
identify with as part of your life. For instance an earlier memory of
rejection generates the attitude and belief that one is unatrractve and
so on.As long as this identification is in place the memories will
continue to support, anchor and justify the negative attitudes they
generate within you. Using positive affirmations to remedy this is like
clipping the leaves off a weed only to have it return the following
week because the root was left in place. This is why affirmations are
only temporarily effective in changing one’s attitudes. So what’s being
said is that you must become aware of these earlier memories, distance
yourself from them, and feel their toxic effects on your mind set and
vibrational state.
3. Finally, it becomes imperative, once you have achieved #1 and #2
above, to then release these negative memories once and for all from
your vibrational pattern. When this is done your vibrational state will
rise spontaneously and you will feel uplifted, buoyant, happy, joyful,
content, optimistic, energized and most importantly your intentions
held as thoughts and images of you embracing your soul mate will become
magnetized. This is what I have called a state of Empowered Intention
which cannot be achieved simply through affirmations alone.
If it is your desire to connect with your soul mate yet you are
struggling with a vibrational state that is drawing to you nothing but
sadness and loneliness then you can contact me at the email address
below and freely experience a remarkably powerful process called the
Mind Resonance Process (MRP) which can assist in you in empowering your
intentions.
Nick Arrizza MD, a former Psychiatrist and Medical Doctor is an
International Life, Executive, Organizational Tele-Coach, Author,
Keynote Speaker, Trainer and Facilitator who lives in Toronto, Canada.
He is also on Faculty at Akamai University in Hawaii. He is the CEO and
Founder of Arrizza Performance Coaching Inc. and the developer of the
powerful Mind Resonance Process (MRP).
A 1 hour free introductory MRP telephone consultation is available upon
request. (You will be asked to cover your own long distance telephone
charges)
Email: drnick@telecoaching4u.com
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